Long-standing travel destroy the family. This sure almost all women. Stories presented in this paper - and proof, and their views on the trip. Let go or not? You decide.
The question of "how to save the family?" Worried, perhaps, all family men. And especially those who because of their profession at home not long delayed. For example, builders who are forced to build facilities across the country, or soccer, practicing and participating in matches around the world, or specialists in foreign trade, contracting authorities on different continents ...
New Family
When my husband went to work Inna from Belarus to further Russian construction, she let him go with a light heart. She believed that their city does not work with normal wages. And like a new car, an apartment, go on holiday.
The first concern of Ina appeared two months later, when Alexei was rarely call. He works late, his mobile was broken. Inna tried to call a phone Leschine friend Dima (in Russia they set out together), but all to no avail. Leschi was not always close to Dima. A friend tried to shield her husband of Ina - say, at work, he says, "you forever, Inca, no luck - call failed.
Soon the calls stopped altogether Leschi. Inna realized that her family was replaced by another ...
The Secret Life Of
In Soligorsk - the city's giant production of potash fertilizer - Russian Jack often visited on business trips. He lived in a hotel in downtown. In the evening went to relax in the bar. There he met a charming local high school student Veronica. They began to meet every time Jack arrived in Soligorsk. Eugene said he did not married, but at the request of Veronica to show your passport just laughed it off.
One day before his arrival in Zhenya's next trip Veronica herself called him. And I heard the phone's voice. It was his wife Genia. The story has not ended. The same evening (Jack already flew to Belarus) Svetlana phoned Veronica and told the juicy details of explanation of the relationship with her husband. "He then wept and begged pardon me, - said Svetlana. - But do not worry. You had neither the first nor the last. My husband is one more dog. "
After arriving in Belarus, Jack phoned Veronica and persuaded to meet. He went on to explain that his wife from him, but money, nothing. She herself can not do anything. Never never worked and is not going. Veronica wanted to believe in all this, and she continued to meet with Eugene.
Why have not be avoided
"My husband works in Moscow for almost 10 years - says 36-year-old Anya. - Comes home about once every 3 months. Hoped that he had in Moscow, no one is just silly. I do not want to cheat on this. I love my husband, but know very well that a man can not survive 3 months without a woman. I got used to the idea. The main thing for me - is that Sergei loved our son, do not forget us, called and visited. Let not as often as you want, but regularly. And his adventures do not interest me. For me the main thing - it's family. "
Business - no
When Kostya told Ira that he was offered a raise, but the work involved long trips, his wife threw a scandal. She was opposed to her husband for a long time left. As a result, Kostya refused to improve.
"I understand that pressed upon him, - Ira shared with her mother. - But what could I do? Yes, I do not need his money to raise. I need a family. Strong. Reliable. To my father to meetings to go to school. And he knew what assessment his children. And on weekends they drove to the water park or amusement. "
Probably right folk wisdom that claims "out of sight out of mind." Experience shows that travel and work away from home often destroy the family. Only the strongest can resist the temptation. Only exceptions to the rule.
The question of "how to save the family?" Worried, perhaps, all family men. And especially those who because of their profession at home not long delayed. For example, builders who are forced to build facilities across the country, or soccer, practicing and participating in matches around the world, or specialists in foreign trade, contracting authorities on different continents ...
New Family
When my husband went to work Inna from Belarus to further Russian construction, she let him go with a light heart. She believed that their city does not work with normal wages. And like a new car, an apartment, go on holiday.
The first concern of Ina appeared two months later, when Alexei was rarely call. He works late, his mobile was broken. Inna tried to call a phone Leschine friend Dima (in Russia they set out together), but all to no avail. Leschi was not always close to Dima. A friend tried to shield her husband of Ina - say, at work, he says, "you forever, Inca, no luck - call failed.
Soon the calls stopped altogether Leschi. Inna realized that her family was replaced by another ...
The Secret Life Of
In Soligorsk - the city's giant production of potash fertilizer - Russian Jack often visited on business trips. He lived in a hotel in downtown. In the evening went to relax in the bar. There he met a charming local high school student Veronica. They began to meet every time Jack arrived in Soligorsk. Eugene said he did not married, but at the request of Veronica to show your passport just laughed it off.
One day before his arrival in Zhenya's next trip Veronica herself called him. And I heard the phone's voice. It was his wife Genia. The story has not ended. The same evening (Jack already flew to Belarus) Svetlana phoned Veronica and told the juicy details of explanation of the relationship with her husband. "He then wept and begged pardon me, - said Svetlana. - But do not worry. You had neither the first nor the last. My husband is one more dog. "
After arriving in Belarus, Jack phoned Veronica and persuaded to meet. He went on to explain that his wife from him, but money, nothing. She herself can not do anything. Never never worked and is not going. Veronica wanted to believe in all this, and she continued to meet with Eugene.
Why have not be avoided
"My husband works in Moscow for almost 10 years - says 36-year-old Anya. - Comes home about once every 3 months. Hoped that he had in Moscow, no one is just silly. I do not want to cheat on this. I love my husband, but know very well that a man can not survive 3 months without a woman. I got used to the idea. The main thing for me - is that Sergei loved our son, do not forget us, called and visited. Let not as often as you want, but regularly. And his adventures do not interest me. For me the main thing - it's family. "
Business - no
When Kostya told Ira that he was offered a raise, but the work involved long trips, his wife threw a scandal. She was opposed to her husband for a long time left. As a result, Kostya refused to improve.
"I understand that pressed upon him, - Ira shared with her mother. - But what could I do? Yes, I do not need his money to raise. I need a family. Strong. Reliable. To my father to meetings to go to school. And he knew what assessment his children. And on weekends they drove to the water park or amusement. "
Probably right folk wisdom that claims "out of sight out of mind." Experience shows that travel and work away from home often destroy the family. Only the strongest can resist the temptation. Only exceptions to the rule.
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