Wednesday, 9 February 2011

Benefits of Travel husband

Husband's business trip - it is always difficult, especially if the trip does not take a month or two. Meanwhile, the wife of sailors, pilots and truck drivers have become accustomed to it. Soak you. On the plus trips my husband read the article.
Husband returned from a trip, but there ... No, he finds his wife in bed with her lover and finds him in a closet or on the balcony. He discovers a completely different thing. In other words, what can be done during the long absence of a spouse?


Do not be sad

The next separation is very upsetting you, and you can not find a place for himself, and some paint in my mind the terrible scenes of his adultery with a co-worker Masha experience as he will be there to eat, who will look after him and, in general, you're just not used to so long to leave .

However, often business trips or remote work spouse - is a great opportunity to improve your financial well-being, so it's worth to wipe the tears and try to find in this situation merit. Instead every morning and every evening nazvanivat him, asking empty questions, like what you do or what you eat, you can spend your free time from the spouse with the greater good.

If your husband left you for a very long time (for example, he and the captain goes to sea for six months), then you can do with a successful outcome is close. So did a nice girl, during the absence of her husband of nearly stokilogrammovoy kustodievskoy girls blonde a few months turned into a graceful and spectacular Brown. Husband returned home, standing in the doorway, he asked: "And Lena at home?", Because quite know a soul mate.

Judge for yourself: you have no temptation to share with her husband busy dinner, and then lie in an embrace in front of TV, and a lot of free time it takes you to cook breakfast, lunch, dinner, laundry and ironing, we can devote to sports and personal care .


Favorite hobby

How long have you wanted something to update in your cozy home, but the presence of her beloved husband and lack of time prevents you from. But now you can safely, without fuss renovate the interior, sewing or buying curtains to match the tablecloths and cushions on your kitchen sofa. Or even to organize a furniture rearrangement, making the apartment more comfortable. A particularly active ladies can surprise a spouse who has returned from a trip fresh repair.

And why not devote your free time to some hobbies? To sign up for belly dance, to visit her husband on strike and make it's dancing. Enroll in a driving school, then to proudly display a treasured pink card and a small, but so important for your driving experience.

In addition, you can safely watch their favorite movies, and while no one will sit next to you and Kate Hudson laugh or chuckle over your tears of emotion during the final scene. Shopping and meeting with friends may be more frequent and more peaceful, but it no longer belongs to the so-called pluses long absence of the spouse.


Life Style

However, returning to the top, I want to see that the temptation to add some fun to their personal lives, using the fact that her husband was away, is very common. Just someone manages easy to nothing binding flirting and this calms down, and someone dives into the real depths of passion.

Freedom, albeit relatively short, beckons. Again you may feel that a carefree young girl (even if you have three children and a responsible position). But whether or not to use such situation? Indeed, at one point, this freedom can be so intoxicated that her husband would return from a trip, and there ... all the attributes of the classical situation. Therefore it is better to use forced absence beloved spouse for the benefit of yourself and your family life. In addition, the separation can only increase your feelings.

Trips are ruining family

Long-standing travel destroy the family. This sure almost all women. Stories presented in this paper - and proof, and their views on the trip. Let go or not? You decide.
The question of "how to save the family?" Worried, perhaps, all family men. And especially those who because of their profession at home not long delayed. For example, builders who are forced to build facilities across the country, or soccer, practicing and participating in matches around the world, or specialists in foreign trade, contracting authorities on different continents ...

New Family

When my husband went to work Inna from Belarus to further Russian construction, she let him go with a light heart. She believed that their city does not work with normal wages. And like a new car, an apartment, go on holiday.

The first concern of Ina appeared two months later, when Alexei was rarely call. He works late, his mobile was broken. Inna tried to call a phone Leschine friend Dima (in Russia they set out together), but all to no avail. Leschi was not always close to Dima. A friend tried to shield her husband of Ina - say, at work, he says, "you forever, Inca, no luck - call failed.

Soon the calls stopped altogether Leschi. Inna realized that her family was replaced by another ...

The Secret Life Of

In Soligorsk - the city's giant production of potash fertilizer - Russian Jack often visited on business trips. He lived in a hotel in downtown. In the evening went to relax in the bar. There he met a charming local high school student Veronica. They began to meet every time Jack arrived in Soligorsk. Eugene said he did not married, but at the request of Veronica to show your passport just laughed it off.

One day before his arrival in Zhenya's next trip Veronica herself called him. And I heard the phone's voice. It was his wife Genia. The story has not ended. The same evening (Jack already flew to Belarus) Svetlana phoned Veronica and told the juicy details of explanation of the relationship with her husband. "He then wept and begged pardon me, - said Svetlana. - But do not worry. You had neither the first nor the last. My husband is one more dog. "

After arriving in Belarus, Jack phoned Veronica and persuaded to meet. He went on to explain that his wife from him, but money, nothing. She herself can not do anything. Never never worked and is not going. Veronica wanted to believe in all this, and she continued to meet with Eugene.


Why have not be avoided

"My husband works in Moscow for almost 10 years - says 36-year-old Anya. - Comes home about once every 3 months. Hoped that he had in Moscow, no one is just silly. I do not want to cheat on this. I love my husband, but know very well that a man can not survive 3 months without a woman. I got used to the idea. The main thing for me - is that Sergei loved our son, do not forget us, called and visited. Let not as often as you want, but regularly. And his adventures do not interest me. For me the main thing - it's family. "

Business - no

When Kostya told Ira that he was offered a raise, but the work involved long trips, his wife threw a scandal. She was opposed to her husband for a long time left. As a result, Kostya refused to improve.

"I understand that pressed upon him, - Ira shared with her mother. - But what could I do? Yes, I do not need his money to raise. I need a family. Strong. Reliable. To my father to meetings to go to school. And he knew what assessment his children. And on weekends they drove to the water park or amusement. "

Probably right folk wisdom that claims "out of sight out of mind." Experience shows that travel and work away from home often destroy the family. Only the strongest can resist the temptation. Only exceptions to the rule.